Okay, it has been over a month since my last post and there is just too much stuff to catch up on. To my defense, I have been away from home and living out of a suitcase for the last month. I will make a couple different posts to cover everything. You could say that our lives have been turned upside down and we are trying to put everything into perspective right now.
First for the hard stuff....
A few days after my dad returned home from visiting us, he went to a scheduled check-up with his doctor. From that appointment they discovered that he had a brain tumor. Less than two weeks after leaving here, he had surgery to remove the tumor. He left here on July 13th, I found out on July 19th about his tumor, the kids and I arrived in Houston on July 23rd and dad's
surgery was on July 24th. After several complications, he finally made it out of the hospital and back home for good on August 6th. The kids and I stayed in Houston for a little over 3 weeks until August 17th.
The biopsy was not what we were hoping for, dad was diagnosed with Grade IV Glioblastoma Multiform. So, now we put up the best fight we can. Dad is currently undergoing radiation and chemotherapy at MD Anderson. So far he is tolerating both well. No nausea from the chemo. We were told that the worst effects of radiation, mainly tiredness, wouldn't be felt until the last few weeks. He is now in the middle of week 3 of 6 weeks of radiation treatments. My sister April and my Aunt Betty Sue set up the following website so that everyone can stay updated on what is happening http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/mikeellisor.

Dad (Popa) with his grandkids
Just after the kids and I arrived back home in Netherlands and got our internal time clocks back in the right time zone we headed off for an 8 day family vacation to Brussels and then Paris. We had a great time, but we arrived home Saturday to find out that my dad's sister, my Aunt Betty Sue, had passed away Friday. This was very unexpected. She had just turned 49 and was the youngest of the siblings.
I know it may sound crazy to say that cancer can be a blessing, but in some ways it has been. During the time that my dad was in the hospital, our family spent every day there. We had a corner in the waiting room that we had taken over, it was actually more like half of the waiting room. After being up there for a few days, I was walking down the hall having a discussion with my sister and my aunts. We were talking about how we knew that God was with us and that he has a plan for each of us. We have no idea of what is to come, but we felt that God had already used my father as a way to bring our family closer together and that we were enjoying spending so much time together, we just wished that it wasn't under the current circumstances. At the time, we did not know how much of a blessing that truly was. I am not saying that we were not a close family, but as the years have passed and the nieces and nephews have grown up and begun their own families, we have just not seen each other as much as we used to. For the almost two weeks that dad was in and out of the hospital, I saw my siblings, grandmother, aunts, uncles, and cousins almost everyday and it was great. As Betty Sue said, "I have given more hugs and said I love you more over the past week than I ever have." Lauren and Justin also were able to get to know their family better and I am so grateful for that.
A few days before we left to come back to Netherlands, Betty Sue and my Meemaw babysat Lauren and Justin, with the help of my niece Aliska, for a whole day while we went to dad's first day of appointments at MD Anderson. We were at the hospital from 8am until 9pm. Betty Sue took the kids to the park, played games with them, rented movies and had a fun slumber party. When we got to Meemaw's, April and I then spent some quality time talking with Betty Sue. Justin was smitten with Betty Sue. The next morning at breakfast he was sitting next to her, loving on her, giving her his cute looks, and would only let her feed him breakfast. It was too cute. Watching her with my kids brought back such good memories of myself with her when I was younger. I do believe everything happens for a reason and I do believe God's plan is perfect. I am so grateful for all the time I spent with my Aunt Betty Sue and the rest of my family during the 3 weeks I was in Houston. It is hard not being there with my family right now, but I feel comforted with the time I have been able to spend with them. If anything, the past month has taught me to cherish every moment I have with those I love, and never pass up a chance to be around them.
My Aunt Betty Sue had recently dedicated her life to the Lord. She was studying the bible and sharing her findings with all those around her. Having her as one of dad's strongest prayer warriors had to be a big check in the plus column, but now we are doing even one better, she is his angel watching over him. What an amazing blessing! I already miss her so much, but I look forward to seeing her in God's amazing kingdom one day.
Some of my favorite Betty Sue memories:-She always had stuff in the trunk of her car that she could use to make a great game for us to play (she was an elementary PE teacher and a tennis instructor)
-She made the best nachos, I think that is where I got my love of jalapenos
-Taking us to the playground
-Riding mopeds
-Camping at Canyon Lake
-Wiffle ball games at Crockett
-Slumber parties in sleeping bags on the floor
-Picking dewberries
-She was always playing jokes
-She told the best stories and they are hilarious
-She taught us how to eat honeysuckle
-Her fear of bugs could be quite entertaining
-Staying with her during the summer and helping her teach tennis lessons
-U-G-L-Y, you ain't got no alibi......
-Waitress, waitress!
-and so many more.....
I love you Betty Sue

